I'm in my late 30's...........that's so weird to say. I know it's cliché but my 30's don't feel old at all. It really feels like I've just begun to live and I'm pretty excited about the next chapter in life. I just had a birthday (I'm a Scorpio Queen) and usually when birthdays come around, I am full of introspection as is the case with a lot of people I'm sure and sometimes I'm a bit melancholy to be honest. I thought about my life and how far I've come. I thought about what

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I wrote about wanting and choosing me a bit ago but I was in a situation where I was not doing that. I felt like a hypocrite. I talked...

I realized a while ago that I have put so much of my worth in what other people thought of me. My self esteem would go up and down...

Last week I posted a video giving a mini tour of my garden on Instagram (see here )and I wanted to talk about my garden journey. You...

Hi! My name is Brenda, B or Madame B to some. You can call me B or Madame B, whatever you're comfortable with. I also accept love, my...